What is a dildo? All about types, materials, use and playful tips 

The dildo is perhaps the ultimate icon among sex toys. This simple yet incredibly versatile toy has conquered millions of bedside tables, drawers, and secret hiding spots. Why? Because it gives you exactly what you want: pure, direct stimulation – without fuss. Whether you’re curious about your very first toy, already have an impressive collection, or just want to know about the different types, here you’ll discover everything about dildos.

We’ll take you into the world of different shapes, sizes, and materials, who uses them, how to combine them with a sex machine, which lubricants are ideal, and how to keep your favorite toy in top condition.

What exactly is a dildo? 

At its core, a dildo is a sex toy designed for penetration. It can be used vaginally or anally, solo or with a partner, and unlike a vibrator, a classic dildo has no built-in vibrations (although vibrating models do exist).

Think of a toy that you control entirely yourself, at your own pace, exactly how you like it. Straight, curved, smooth, or full of ridges – there’s a dildo for every mood and fantasy.

The many types of dildos 

Dildos come in so many types and styles, it’s almost like an adult candy store. Here are some popular examples:

• Realistic dildos – With veins, a head, and sometimes even balls. Almost indistinguishable from the real thing.
• Fantasy dildos – Think dragons, aliens, or abstract shapes. Perfect for those who love to colour outside the lines.
• Anal dildos – Slightly slimmer, with a wide base for safety. Ideal for anal stimulation lovers.
• Double dildos – For shared play or double pleasure.
• Suction cup dildos – Stick them to the wall, floor, or in the shower for hands-free adventures.
• Ejaculating dildos – For extra realism, with an ‘ejaculation’ function.
• Large dildos – For advanced users who love a serious challenge.

Who are dildos for? 

Short answer: anyone who enjoys penetration.

• Beginners often choose a smaller, smooth model made of soft silicone.
• Advanced users go for extra length, girth, or exciting textures.
• Couples use dildos during foreplay, role play, or simply because they can.
• Anal enthusiasts choose special anal dildos for comfort and safety.

Remember: it’s not about what you’re ‘supposed’ to use – it’s about what feels good for you.

Materials: from soft to firm 

The material of your dildo determines how it feels, how you clean it, and how long it lasts:

• Silicone – Soft, body-safe, and flexible, yet firm. A favourite for many.
• Glass – Hard, smooth, and ideal for temperature play. Warm it up or cool it down for extra sensation.
• Metal – Heavy, luxurious, and perfect for pressure on the right spot.
• TPE/PVC – Often more affordable and flexible, but always check if it’s body-safe.
• Rubber – Flexible and inexpensive, but can have a smell and needs extra cleaning care.

Lubricant: your best friend for dildo fun 

Types of lubricant 

A little lube can make the difference between “nice” and “amazing.” Different types have their own benefits:

• Water-based – Safe for all materials, easy to clean, and condom-friendly. Ideal with silicone dildos.
• Silicone-based – Silky and long-lasting. Perfect for anal sex or underwater play, but avoid with silicone toys.
• Anal lubricant – Thick, long-lasting, and designed for extra comfort during anal play.
• Numbing lubricant – Can help with relaxation, especially for anal, but use sparingly.
• 2-in-1 lubricant/massage oil – Great for foreplay and penetration.

Dildos and sex machines: the ultimate combo 

For hands-free pleasure, there’s another step: dildos designed as attachments for a sex machine. At Hismith, you’ll find a wide range of dildos with KlicLok fittings for Premium sex machines and EZfunLok fittings for Auxfun entry models – from realistic shafts to extreme XXL sizes.

Cleaning: keep it fresh 

A dildo lasts longer (and is safer) if you keep it clean:

• Wash after each use with warm water and mild toy cleaner or unscented soap.
• Porous materials? Use a condom to keep bacteria out.
• Glass or metal can often go in the dishwasher (always check the manufacturer’s instructions).
• Store dry and dust-free, preferably in a separate bag or pouch.

Tips for choosing your dildo 

1. Always choose a body-safe material.

2. Consider both length and diameter.

3. Decide on features: vibration, suction cup, or extreme shape.

4. For anal use, always choose a wide base.

5. Want to use it with a sex machine? Check the connection type.

Conclusion 

Whether you go for a small beginner’s dildo, a fantasy dragon-shaped one, or a giant attachment for your sex machine – there’s always a model to suit your desires. With the right lubricant and a little care, you’ll enjoy your toy for years.

Questions or unsure which model suits you best? Message us via chat or email, we’re happy to help you find your new favourite.

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions about Dildos 

1. Can I use a dildo both vaginally and anally?
Yes, but for anal use a wide base is essential for safety. Switching between areas? Always clean thoroughly in between or use a condom.

2. What’s the best lubricant for my dildo?
With silicone dildos, water-based lube is safest. For glass or metal dildos, you can use both water-based and silicone-based lubes.

3. How often should I clean my dildo?
After every use. This keeps it hygienic and extends the toy’s life.